I took this aerial photo of an archipelago when flying over the Bahamas. I love the play of water, light and sand. Lately it feels like I've been caught in an unending storm. Dark days continue to appear on the horizon. It leaves me wondering if we'll ever regain what we've lost. It is easy to give way to despair and pessimism. None of us can survive day in and day out, if all we see is doom. I've been feeling it. How about you? I believe the antidote is joy. We each need to

I'm doing an awful lot of waiting these days: Waiting for the Government to open up Waiting at the airport for a flight to leave Waiting for a buyer to make an offer on our DC house Waiting for a baby to be born Waiting for the next season Waiting for the other shoe to drop And I don't like it at all. I suppose I'm not alone in this. Mindfulness encourages me to reframe these days of waiting into something different. When I want answers today, can I allow myself to abide in t

I'm leaning into the season and taking a lesson from the Autumn leaves. In these times of uncertainty, my natural inclination is to cling to my side of the story, the security of my job, my long held beliefs, in search of a solid place to stand. Unfortunately, everything feels like shifting sand. Maybe it's time for a change in perspective. The leaves are so beautiful, so brilliant, so temporary. They teach us that everything changes. In autumn, nature says to let go of what

I'm on retreat at the Omega Institute. Here's my view this morning. Consider this email my postcard to you from the Hudson Valley. I wish you were here. I'm surrounded by the beauty of nature. I'm meditating with close friends, favorite teachers, and hundreds of good hearted people. It is exactly what my soul needs in these troubled days. I'm taking a little time to rest and recharge. I hope you're finding ways to take care of yourself. Practice Now that you've checked out yo

Sometimes you just need a hug. This has been one of those months. So many of you responded to last week's reflection with thoughtful words of support. Friends have been equally kind. Today, Catherine, my friend whom I haven't seen in months, gave me the best hug ever. No little pat on the back, this was a full-body embrace that spoke in a language beyond words. Some of the hardness shielding my heart simply melted. Please, please, please, find someone to hug this week. It wil

Just a couple days ago, Patrick and I celebrated our anniversary. 27 years ago, in front of our family and friends, we vowed to make our...

Last week I shared a photo of a mountain landscape from the Olympic Peninsula. This week's photo highlights a magnificent plant from...

View from Weasel Hollow, where I stayed with friends in the Olympic Peninsula. Recently, I've been visiting various friends throughout...

Did you ever get lost in the wonder of the night sky? Or sit around a campfire, warmed by the glow of the fire, filled with a deep sense...

The Abbey of the Genesee is one of the first monasteries I visited as a young man in Western New York. I can still recall the smell of...

Franciscan monastery in Killala, Ireland from the 16th century Most people I know are way too busy. We are constantly going from texts to...

Sunrise at Rehoboth Beach When I was a Franciscan novice, a bell called us to prayer every morning, noon, evening, and night. Back then,...

Lance-leaved coreopsis I spent this past week at a friend's vacation home in New Hampshire. First thing in the mornings, I walked down to...

Image generated by Adobe Express. After many years in Rochester, NY, my youngest sister is packing up her home to move to another state....

The present moment... If you've been following this blog, you'll recognize this spot. This strip of beach is my favorite place to...

Lately when I've sat down to write these weekly reflections, I'm mostly aware of heaviness and uncertainty. Often I struggle to find...

My first zentangle There are many reasons for gloom these days. Federal friends have lost jobs. The granddaughter of my mother's neighbor...

Last weekend, I led a mini-meditation retreat for a group of friends contemplating retirement and how to approach the last third of life....

House Sparrow in my DC neighborhood I'm a third generation bird lover. My grandmother delighted whenever hummingbirds hovered at the...

Let's do a thought experiment. Answer the question: "Where are you right now?" Stop reading, close your eyes, and see what surfaces.  ...