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Clear View: October 26 - November 1
I'm on retreat at the Omega Institute. Here's my view this morning. Consider this email my postcard to you from the Hudson Valley. I wish you were here. I'm surrounded by the beauty of nature. I'm meditating with close friends, favorite teachers, and hundreds of good hearted people. It is exactly what my soul needs in these troubled days. I'm taking a little time to rest and recharge. I hope you're finding ways to take care of yourself. Practice Now that you've checked out yo

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Oct 25, 20251 min read


Hug: October 19 - 25
Sometimes you just need a hug. This has been one of those months. So many of you responded to last week's reflection with thoughtful words of support. Friends have been equally kind. Today, Catherine, my friend whom I haven't seen in months, gave me the best hug ever. No little pat on the back, this was a full-body embrace that spoke in a language beyond words. Some of the hardness shielding my heart simply melted. Please, please, please, find someone to hug this week. It wil

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Oct 18, 20252 min read


Between: October 12 - 18
Just a couple days ago, Patrick and I celebrated our anniversary. 27 years ago, in front of our family and friends, we vowed to make our...

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Oct 11, 20252 min read


With Eyes Closed: October 5 - 11
Last week I shared a photo of a mountain landscape from the Olympic Peninsula. This week's photo highlights a magnificent plant from...

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Oct 4, 20252 min read


With Eyes Open: September 28 - October 4
View from Weasel Hollow, where I stayed with friends in the Olympic Peninsula. Recently, I've been visiting various friends throughout...

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Sep 27, 20252 min read


Compline: September 21 - 27
Did you ever get lost in the wonder of the night sky? Or sit around a campfire, warmed by the glow of the fire, filled with a deep sense...

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Sep 21, 20252 min read


Evensong: September 14 - 20
The Abbey of the Genesee is one of the first monasteries I visited as a young man in Western New York. I can still recall the smell of...

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Sep 13, 20252 min read


Ora et Labora: September 7 - 13
Franciscan monastery in Killala, Ireland from the 16th century Most people I know are way too busy. We are constantly going from texts to...

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Sep 6, 20252 min read


First Light: August 31 - September 6
Sunrise at Rehoboth Beach When I was a Franciscan novice, a bell called us to prayer every morning, noon, evening, and night. Back then,...

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Aug 30, 20251 min read


Tiny Suns: August 24 - 30
Lance-leaved coreopsis I spent this past week at a friend's vacation home in New Hampshire. First thing in the mornings, I walked down to...

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Aug 23, 20251 min read


Old Boxes: August 17 - 23
Image generated by Adobe Express. After many years in Rochester, NY, my youngest sister is packing up her home to move to another state....

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Aug 17, 20252 min read


Ocean Thoughts: August 10 - 16
The present moment... If you've been following this blog, you'll recognize this spot. This strip of beach is my favorite place to...

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Aug 9, 20252 min read


Small Moments: August 3 - 9
Lately when I've sat down to write these weekly reflections, I'm mostly aware of heaviness and uncertainty. Often I struggle to find...

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Aug 3, 20251 min read


Create: July 27 - Aug 2
My first zentangle There are many reasons for gloom these days. Federal friends have lost jobs. The granddaughter of my mother's neighbor...

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Jul 26, 20252 min read


Garden of the Heart: July 20 - 26
Last weekend, I led a mini-meditation retreat for a group of friends contemplating retirement and how to approach the last third of life....

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Jul 19, 20252 min read


Birds: July 13 - 19
House Sparrow in my DC neighborhood I'm a third generation bird lover. My grandmother delighted whenever hummingbirds hovered at the...

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Jul 13, 20252 min read


Homecoming: July 7 - 13
Let's do a thought experiment. Answer the question: "Where are you right now?" Stop reading, close your eyes, and see what surfaces. ...

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Jul 5, 20252 min read


Storms: June 29 - July 5
Maybe because June begins with gay pride , maybe because my birthday falls in the middle of the month, or maybe because I eagerly await...

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Jun 28, 20252 min read


Summer Days and Stary Nights: June 22 - 28
Maybe because we've reached the long days of summer, maybe because the community pool is open, maybe because the corn is so sweet, maybe...

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Jun 21, 20252 min read


Age: June 15 - 21
Wednesday is my birthday. Whether you believe in the Big Bang or "Let there be light.", the stuff of the universe is all the same age,...

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Jun 15, 20252 min read
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