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Thin Places: October 29 - November 4
Halloween is based on the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain. Samhain was the division of the year between the lighter half (summer) and...

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Oct 29, 20231 min read
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Circle of Connection: October 22 - 28
Americans tend to idealize rugged individualism but the separate self is really an illusion. From before we are born until our last...

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Oct 22, 20231 min read
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The Peace of Wild Things: October 15 - 21
The Peace of Wild Thing When despair for the world grows in me and I wake in the night at the least sound in fear of what my life and my...

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Oct 15, 20231 min read
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Opening: October 8 - 14
The frontal cortex is the most evolved part of the brain. It is where we reason, plan, and are self-aware. When scientists examined the...

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Oct 8, 20231 min read
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Life and Death: October 1 - 7
Our life here on earth begins with our first breath and ends with the last. All the days in between are a series of one breath after...

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Oct 1, 20231 min read
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Leaves: September 24 - 30
Some people when they see a tree, see a tree. Some people when they see a tree, come to life. Some people when they see a tree, see a...

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Sep 24, 20231 min read
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Days of Awe: September 17 - 23
This week, I turn to the tradition of the Jewish faith. Last Friday at sundown was the beginning of the Jewish New Year Rosh Hashanah and...

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Sep 17, 20231 min read
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Upon Waking: September 10 - 16
The eighteenth-century Hasidic Rabbi Hayim Heikel of Amdur says: When you awake in the morning immediately remember that the blessed...

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Sep 10, 20231 min read
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Trees: September 3 - 9
In The Hidden Life of Trees, Peter Wohlleben writes there is no such thing as an individual tree but through its roots and branches it is...

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Sep 3, 20231 min read
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Community: August 27 - September 2
A zillion studies show the depth and breadth of our relationships determine our ultimate happiness. Want to improve life on all fronts?...

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Aug 27, 20231 min read
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Clay: August 20 - 26
For many years, I believed life was something I possessed. From the first breath until the last, my purpose was to discover my mission...

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Aug 20, 20231 min read
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Stabilitas Loci: August 13 - 19
I was once a Franciscan friar but not a monk. Friars live and serve out in the world. Monks live, work and pray in a monastery. They take...

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Aug 13, 20231 min read
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The Guest House: August 6 - 12
This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an...

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Aug 6, 20231 min read
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Home: July 30 - August 5
When Patrick and I married 25 years ago, we vowed to make our home a place of love and welcome. We try to keep that promise. Our dining...

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Jul 30, 20231 min read
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Joy: July 23 - 29
A joy shared is a joy doubled and a burden shared is a burden halved. When I was a novice with the Franciscans, Fr. James Cox, an elderly...

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Jul 23, 20231 min read
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Happy Place: July 16 - 22
It is no secret that the beach is my happy place. Maybe because some part of my subconscious remembers the first 9 months of life in my...

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Jul 16, 20231 min read
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Savor: July 9 - 15
Humans survived thanks to a negativity bias. This way of thinking helped our ancestors avoid being eaten by a lion, but today it can trap...

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Jul 9, 20231 min read
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Eat More Ice Cream: July 2 - 8
I'd dare to make more mistakes next time. I'd relax. I would limber up. I would be sillier than I have been this trip. I would take fewer...

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Jul 2, 20231 min read
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Summer Day: June 25 - July 1
Who made the world? Who made the swan, and the black bear? Who made the grasshopper? This grasshopper, I mean— the one who has flung...

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Jun 25, 20231 min read
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Sky: June 18 - 24
Body like the mountain, Heart like the ocean, Mind like the sky. Master Dogen zenmasterdogen.com Let your mind be like the sky. The same...

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Jun 18, 20231 min read
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