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Not Enough: May 5 - 11
Meditation can be freeing but along the way it might be scary. One never knows what will arise when creating a space for silence and...

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May 5, 20242 min read
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Not Magic: April 28 - May 4
For the longest time I thought of meditation and mindfulness as achieving a special state of unending bliss. I read stories of mystics...

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Apr 28, 20242 min read
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Not Sitting: April 21 - 27
I don't practice mindfulness to get really good at sitting. I don't practice mindfulness to get really good at breathing. I practice...

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Apr 21, 20242 min read
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Not Alone: April 14 - 20
My college years were difficult for me. While I did well academically, socially I felt isolated. On Friday nights, I found myself alone...

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Apr 14, 20242 min read
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Not Thoughts: April 7 - 13
Let's do a thought experiment. If you could turn off the voice in your head, would you cease to be? Who would you be? Where does the...

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Apr 7, 20242 min read
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Forever and Now: March 31 - April 6
The more I practice mindfulness the more I am convinced the secret to happiness is simply showing up, truly noticing each moment and...

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Mar 31, 20242 min read
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Not Perfect: March 24 - 30
I think it started in first or second grade. Mrs. Pearson gave out gold stars for top grades and sitting straight at our desks. By the...

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Mar 24, 20242 min read
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Spring: March 17 - 23
Did you notice a theme running through these meditations this month? I'm exploring common misperceptions about life and our faulty...

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Mar 17, 20242 min read
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Not Forever Again: March 10 - 16
As a skeeter bug dances across the surface of a pond so I skim through life a breath at a time. I live in the present moment and am only...

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Mar 10, 20241 min read
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Not Forever: March 3 - 9
This week a close friend lost a nephew, another good friend started radiation treatments, and my job unexpectedly changed. As much as I...

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Mar 3, 20242 min read
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Not in Control: February 25 - March 2
If you could watch the soap opera of my life, you'd see I pretty much star in every scene and act as if the entire world revolves around...

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Feb 25, 20242 min read
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Showing Up: February 18 - 24
According to Woody Allen, "80% of success is showing up." And in the contest of life, you have to be present to win. Take a moment to...

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Feb 18, 20242 min read
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Living Inside Out: February 11 - 17
Growing up gay, the world wasn't always a safe place. As a survival skill, I learned to hide my true voice, blend in with the crowd, and...

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Feb 11, 20242 min read
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Hope: February 4 - 10
As we turned the corner into a new month, February begins with the feast of St Brigid. With its origins in the Celtic festival of Imbolc,...

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Feb 4, 20242 min read
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Humility: January 28 - February 3
Last week I extolled the virtues of determination and discipline. This week I temper those words with humility and humor. Perfection is...

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Jan 28, 20241 min read
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Stick-with-it-ness: January 21 - 27
Too many options is not always a good thing. When I feel bored or stuck in a rut, I’m tempted to look for something new and exciting....

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Jan 21, 20241 min read
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Caught by Love: January 14 - 20
In the cartoons, enlightenment is depicted as climbing up a mountain and meeting the guru sitting at the top, who has the answers to...

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Jan 14, 20242 min read
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Good Morning: January 7 - 13
No resolutions, no promises to eat healthier, no gym memberships. This year I want to live in the present moment. My goal is to be...

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Jan 7, 20241 min read
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Year in Review: December 31 - January 6
I started the year of mindfulness by focusing on the breath. Now on the last day of this year, I do the same. Every in breath is followed...

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Dec 31, 20231 min read
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Love Incarnate: December 24 - 30
Have I mentioned my master’s degree is in theology? Sometimes I can’t help but talk about God. Incarnation simply means body and spirit,...

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Dec 23, 20231 min read
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